Understanding Getting a Divorce Even If You Can't Locate Your Spouse - NY State Law Roberta Feldman talks to us about pursuing a divorce when you don't know where your spouse is living. Roberta K. Feldman / Friday, July 21, 2017 0 21870 Article rating: 3.0 A question that I often am asked is can I get a divorce if I can’t find my spouse. So the answer is yes, however, we need to be able to present to the court proof that we have tried to find the spouse. Read more